emotions and facts - a divergence
I think everyone for presentation in front of a partner has certain rights and the future or the future. This is probably normal. I can not explain why it should be, but that it will be good. It is also not the point of what I want. Rather, it is me first to the picture that you paint in his head - one of the other more specific spongy. From personal experience I've learned, it may well be important, and normal to have such a picture, but when push comes to shove, it is completely unnecessary. With the crunch mean when a man confronts you, and he knocks down up by his mere physical presence, then the feelings. Or feeling similar feelings. Then you may decline the image of a tanned blond athletes have on their mind, that of the one at the sight but missed (positive) goose bumps, brown and all his life still no tanning seen from the inside, let alone a gym. What is
I also want it to turn the dream of a partner with all its superficiality and character traits in the head and is very well give you but the reality may look completely. The principles at the wrong time is to be noted, I think. And the experience / success gives me rights.
But this is only one side of the medal, and only a possible divergence. The second I find far more disturbing. And leads to much more complex risks and problems. You have your image of a blonde female academic with a penchant for sarcasm and see them standing foot strut front of you. Then you meet them. She is blond. Studied. And more than two seasons combined sarcasm Dr. House. The problem? The theory is right, the conditions are present. But lacks the feeling. You see the woman "your dreams" before you want, but feeling nothing. Nothing that you would expect when you meet them. No tingling, no timid nervousness, no bashful Angrisen. Because the spark of theory and practice is not contagious. What actually is and what you feel about diverges. You know, as it stands because it is objectively seen a woman with whom you could share your life. It might even should. But you do not feel.
Or you can wander through the "last minute panic" just in case? To that effect are wrong inevitable that the emotions, for lack of the prerequisites? If it is desired, perhaps as much to meet the woman that they see in someone who is not at all and the feelings are trying to protect a?
a strange world. But I think if you listeners to yourself, you find there long ago the answer to every difficult question. You just have to let out. I think when one is confronted with a problem is within him, the decision also has fallen. What comes after the confrontation, is the slow response of the regurgitation. And some simply mistaken gag reflex have better control. But to the property at a big chunk to fail.
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